This is an article I proposed to send with a new year message of change for the better due to family bereavements I have been delayed in posting till now the message is the same make your choices count this year and your life
read on to find out more........
Choices
We make choices every day and it is the choices we make that will creat our world together with our thoughts and actions which are outcomes from our choices.
When we look back with hind sight , we often mull over why we made decisions which, with hind sight become obvious they were not right at the time.
Choices can become diluted by our emotional impacts and mind sets at the time, colouring and viewing with different perspectives, creating outcomes that were flawed in concept and undermines yours and others future.
When we are over tired and overwrought decision making can be compromised it is often best to sleep on
it and look at the choices with a clear head. The decisions thought of during the times of tiredness are quite different after a nights sleep. Some times the choices we will make will be reactive when we are tired and overwrought not our best choices and producing out comes creating more of the same situation which gets worse and spirals out of control , going in ever decreasing circles. For example ;- If it is money, finances get worse, it if is relationships they dissolve and go wrong constantly.
Choices become one aspect of what we are creating in our lives
Have you ever wished you could stop yourself from making constant choices that you know don't work? This is where we get in a rut of triggers, behaviour and default reactions which keeps us in the status quo. Maybe it is something from your past in this life that keeps you saying, doing and are reacting to the same situations. For instance being drawn to the same type of partner, who you know is not right but you can't help yourself you keep being attracted to the same type of person. Another area is in the work place applying for jobs or profession you don't want to do or like unable to see a future of change and expansion.
Life creates opportunities for us to take allowing us to make changes in our lives, however if we are closed to change, locked into a paradigm. It will be the decision and choices made of whether to accept of not that will determine the outcomes and consequences to follow. Trigging change or the status quo
The choice is yours and yours alone it is essentially the will and courage that ultimately enhances the outcomes and choices for you. Self esteem and self worth are other areas where when lacking create consequences in our world of choice.
When we make that ultimate choice to stop the status quo, things around us change, new doors open which appeared to be closed previously, invariably individuals leave and new people and opportunities enter our world Making space for change and a new way of life comes with the choices we make daily.
Do you go with your instinct and turn left today at a junction taking a short cut and avoiding the stress, anxiety and consequences or do your go the normal way and run into traffic jams holding you up for hours and having a near miss collision in the process! Choices are at play every minute of our day ensure that you're a choices work for you
Secrets of life
The workshop called the Secrets of Life explains and expands the above, how triggers and patterns rule us today. How past life influences are still at play and logged in behaviour, social interaction, health patterns and imprints of the mind.
Learn how to avoid the pitfalls and learn the rules of the game jettisoning the past with new skills and perceptions of ourselves and those around us. Learn techniques of how to live life with grace and ease, have your heaven on earth now, the days of suffering are gone, take control of your life today. This workshop is run several a times a year look out for event dates and venues on the web site.
With option of 3 or 6-day attendance book on line at www.allonus.co.uk
The next workshop :-
Edinburgh 5th -10th March
Belfast 5th-11th May
Joy Wisdom
February 2012
